4. having people give me contradicting orders ("what? you didn't finish your homework? go do it now!" shortly followed by, "clean your room now" and finished up with, "why aren't you asleep? i want you asleep now." )
3. being in a bad mood during a should-be great party.
2. needing someone to comfort you and the only people you want to talk to are high.
1. being too passive to address some of the major problems you're having in an important relationship.